I went to the wtf appointment by myself yesterday. We had words about it but whatev’s, I’m over it now. I was doing really well when the doctor came to get me. We were chit chatting about the weather and stuff but when I sat down he got really serious and quiet and apologised for the negative and he can’t imagine the toll this is taking on us, blah blah blah. I was fine up until then, then I had to blink away tears and make an awkward joke. I can’t even remember what it was.
So he said a few things. It could be my lining so we’re going to do an endometrial biopsy and another hysteroscopy at the same time. Thankfully we’ll do this with the next cycle while I’m on bcp’s so there’ll not be a delay. Yay! He said it could also still be other genetic issues with the embryos that they can’t pick up in PGS. Bleh. We’ll try this next round with the biopsy and go from there. He keeps saying that all his translocation patients have to work a little harder and have to do more rounds than any other couple would so I’m trying to mentally prepare myself for a long road.
I asked if there’s a chance I could have endometriosis and he said that from what he has on file and what I’ve told him that it’s not likely and if I did that it wouldn’t be worse than stage 1 or 2 and he wouldn’t want to do a laparoscopy out since it’s invasive. 20 bucks says by round 5 I’ll be booked for one, stat :).
What else did he say? Oh, I asked about egg quality and he checked his notes and said that the folks in the lab commented that they weren’t the prettiest and they weren’t jumping up and down about them but also that in his experience he’s seen women with the same comments go one to have successful pregnancies and we’re getting fertilization and blastocysts so he’s not worried about that.
As for protocol, my first round I was on a 75iu Menopur and Gonal F and we slowly increased and triggered with HCG in the butt. I ended up with 14 eggs, 13 mature. The second I was on 150iu Menopur and Gonal F (I believe) and we slowly increased and triggered with HCG in the tummy. I ended up with 12 eggs, 7 mature. So he decided to do a mix of both rounds and use a Lupron trigger next time. So we’re doing 75iu Menopur and 150 Gonal F and we’ll go from there. Also, the clinic has switched from Ganirelix to Cetrotide for insurance purposes. Yay for no more blunt needles!
I also got to meet the new nurse D. He was really sweet. I feel bad for being mean to him now. But all in all it was a good appointment I think. I always forget to ask questions. But I think I covered everything. Whatever, can we just start? If my body plays along, we should be ready to kick things off in 16 days. Whoop! Let’s go!
And some shitty insurance news of course… Because what IVF cycle would be complete without insurance woes. So they still haven’t paid my claim for the genetics testing. I called about a month ago and the young lady said that the claim was there but that it takes about 40 days. Okay, fine. It’s now been 2 months and I called again (I really should have called sooner) only to find out that some genius tagged the claim as Fitness & Wellness and not Medical so no one’s looked at it…for 2 months… 2 months.
Thankfully, the guy (another D.. his name is D. Not D as in, well, you know), gave me his email address and he said he’d have them expedite the claim and he’d get it sorted out asap. Yaaaa…What? Nope, D found another issue. Apparently, I’d sent the wrong bill. It didn’t have any of the codes that were needed.
But again, D said to just call the genetics lab and have them send over the correct bill and to forward to him directly so that we can get it fixed up real quick. Great. I quickly hopped on the line with the genetics lab and very nice yet somewhat unsure-of-herself older woman told me that they should send me an itemized bill in about 5 business days. I have a feeling I’m going to have to follow up on this but for now we’ll leave it up to the infertility gods.
Anyway, that’s all I have for now. Life is going to be dull again for the next 16 days but I’ll find some stuff to blog about.
Time to catch up on what’s going on in your lives.
23 thoughts on “Updates Updates Updates”
I hope everything gets sorted quickly with your pgs bill, and hope that the next 16 days are peaceful for you before you start your next round. I hope this is your round!!!
Yeah! Thanks so much!
I echo mamaetmaman. I hope the next 16 days pass quickly and this next round is the one that works perfectly!
Thanks! I’m going to try a nonchalant approach this time. Like I’m going to the dentist.
Argh I feel your pain not knowing why it didn’t work. All the very best for your next cycle!
So frustrating! I hope the bill gets paid and you get started, stat! X
Seriously. It’s definitely going to make this round interesting because I’m hoping to get the money by the time egg retrieval rolls around.
Sheesh. Your insurance company sound like a bunch of pillocks! Good luck for your next round xx
Hahaha, that they are. Thanks!
Wow that is so quick to be at it again. I am sure those 16 days will fly by.
Yes, I’m surprised it went so quickly. But of course it still feel like it’s gonna take forever.
I love how our questions never get answered from the RE. I understand that the reason why are usually unknown but it would be nice to get a clear answer every now and again. Good luck and looking forward to your next update. With me being on a break right now all I have is the people I follow updates. Lol
I know right! Watching your RE umm and ahh when deciding on the dosages of meds is a little worrisome. But I trust him. At least they’re calculated umm’s and ahh’s 🙂
That’s all we can do! ☺️
Yay for getting some things sorted out and having a plan! Hope all goes smoothly, and time passes fast for you!
Love the emotions (pictures) sprinkled in the post. Hope things get moving – quickly and smoothly for you!
Thanks! I really hope so too.
Oye! Insurance people really are geniuses aren’t they!?!?! Can’t wait for this next cycle to start, your new round of testing to be complete and this show to get on the road.
Seriously.. but yeah, thank you!! I’m looking forward to starting!
I hope the next two weeks go by quickly for you. Insurance is the nightmare icing of the infertility world, but it sounds like you’ve finally got the ball rolling. Good luck! *hugs*
Thanks!! The ball is rolling but slowly. We’ll get it sorted out.